I don't know where to begin...
But I suppose that's because the story of the beginning of my next three years of education is not yet complete although it seems to be taking shape and this brings a smile to my face. I am experiencing placing my trust in God, and there is no one better to trust in.
More than anything, I want to know You more, to seek first Your kingdom and Your righteousness.
This particular verse was the bedtime prayer my father uttered unto God and over us many times when we were children. It has become my prayer as well these last couple of days.
Oh remember, Rene, remember God's goodness to you.
2 Jun 2014
Fingers with shiny light peach glittery nails. My one and only sister is now the wife of a good man. We love him cos he's great! :)
Things I learnt over the course of the last few days:
-Weddings can either strengthen or break up a family (or families-in-law). Do whatever you can to make it strengthen the family, even if it means raw, honest conversations and taking time off... Also, telling God honestly how you feel helps, a lot (it's not like one can hide anything anyway haha). He reminds me that I too have made mistakes, that he has shown me forgiveness and still loves me. He takes away anger that, on our own, we would not be able to overcome.
-Anything that can go wrong is likely to go wrong no matter how much you plan and preempt. Accept this fact and we'll laugh about it five years down the road. Oh, and I think from this experience, I can say that it's extremely important to have a sewing kit. Very important.
-When you marry someone, you marry into their family. So there will be a lot of compromising, prepare yourself... although I don't know if any preparation will ever really be sufficient.
-Having awesome people around makes things pretty awesome. When the lunch meal takes an hour to come and everyone is grimy (no aircon!), it's good (and witty) friends and lovely conversation that will help you make it through without noticing the time.
-Makeup needs to be removed by makeup remover. I am so thankful for Amy and her knowledge about makeup!
Extra stuff: Azlan from BLOGDILOZ was the wedding photographer. The photos have not arrived yet but the professionalism displayed on that day was absolutely impressive. Go check them out!
You know, May was an absolutely beautiful bride, both inside and outside. :)
Things I learnt over the course of the last few days:
-Weddings can either strengthen or break up a family (or families-in-law). Do whatever you can to make it strengthen the family, even if it means raw, honest conversations and taking time off... Also, telling God honestly how you feel helps, a lot (it's not like one can hide anything anyway haha). He reminds me that I too have made mistakes, that he has shown me forgiveness and still loves me. He takes away anger that, on our own, we would not be able to overcome.
-Anything that can go wrong is likely to go wrong no matter how much you plan and preempt. Accept this fact and we'll laugh about it five years down the road. Oh, and I think from this experience, I can say that it's extremely important to have a sewing kit. Very important.
-When you marry someone, you marry into their family. So there will be a lot of compromising, prepare yourself... although I don't know if any preparation will ever really be sufficient.
-Having awesome people around makes things pretty awesome. When the lunch meal takes an hour to come and everyone is grimy (no aircon!), it's good (and witty) friends and lovely conversation that will help you make it through without noticing the time.
-Makeup needs to be removed by makeup remover. I am so thankful for Amy and her knowledge about makeup!
Extra stuff: Azlan from BLOGDILOZ was the wedding photographer. The photos have not arrived yet but the professionalism displayed on that day was absolutely impressive. Go check them out!
You know, May was an absolutely beautiful bride, both inside and outside. :)